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Functional Analytic Psychotherapy

FAP
«The therapeutic relationship is the main instrument of change.»
Definition

FAP applies behavioral analysis to the therapeutic relationship itself. The client's outside-life patterns appear in session as clinically relevant behavior: CRB1 for problem behavior, CRB2 for improvement and CRB3 for the client's own awareness of the pattern.

Key clinical implication: keep the method tied to observable life patterns, not to abstract explanation. Preserve the client's agency and adapt the protocol to the real environment in which the behavior occurs.

Founders and history

Robert Kohlenberg and Mavis Tsai developed the approach in the early 1990s. They asked why clients can understand their problems in therapy yet still repeat them in relationships. Their answer: therapy must create, notice and shape the behavior as it happens live.

Key clinical implication: keep the method tied to observable life patterns, not to abstract explanation. Preserve the client's agency and adapt the protocol to the real environment in which the behavior occurs.

Key concepts

The five FAP rules are: observe CRB, evoke CRB, naturally reinforce CRB2, notice the effect of the therapist's response and promote generalization. The therapist uses awareness, courage and love as clinical disciplines, not as sentimental slogans.

Key clinical implication: keep the method tied to observable life patterns, not to abstract explanation. Preserve the client's agency and adapt the protocol to the real environment in which the behavior occurs.

Therapy format

A FAP session is intense because the therapist is not only discussing relationships but participating in one. Authenticity is useful only when it serves the client. Confrontation must be warm, specific and connected with observable behavior.

Key clinical implication: keep the method tied to observable life patterns, not to abstract explanation. Preserve the client's agency and adapt the protocol to the real environment in which the behavior occurs.

Evidence base

The evidence base is smaller than for broad CBT protocols, but FAP has controlled studies and process research supporting change in interpersonal functioning, social connection and depression-related outcomes. It is often integrated with ACT as FACT.

Key clinical implication: keep the method tied to observable life patterns, not to abstract explanation. Preserve the client's agency and adapt the protocol to the real environment in which the behavior occurs.

Limitations

FAP requires supervision and strong boundaries. Poorly calibrated self-disclosure, confrontation or emotional intensity can overwhelm the client. Trauma history, dissociation and attachment instability require careful pacing.

Key clinical implication: keep the method tied to observable life patterns, not to abstract explanation. Preserve the client's agency and adapt the protocol to the real environment in which the behavior occurs.

Clinical sequence

FAP starts before any dramatic intervention: the therapist tracks how the client's life pattern appears in the room. A client who avoids needs outside therapy may avoid asking the therapist for anything. A client who expects rejection may test the therapist, withdraw before being disappointed or turn warmth into a joke. These are not side details; they are the treatment material.

The therapist first observes CRB1 and CRB2 quietly. Then the therapist evokes clinically relevant behavior through genuine contact, careful feedback, silence, requests, warmth or naming the relational moment. When a more effective behavior appears, the therapist reinforces it naturally: with attention, emotion, specificity and honest impact. The reinforcement must be real enough for the client to feel that the new behavior mattered.

Rule 4 is often the difference between FAP and performance. The therapist watches whether their response actually functioned as reinforcement. If the client opens, breathes, stays in contact or speaks more directly, the response may have worked. If the client closes, appeases or disappears into intellectual talk, the therapist recalibrates.

Finally, FAP generalizes. The therapist helps the client connect the in-session change to life: asking for support, saying no, naming hurt, staying present during conflict or allowing closeness. Homework is not a worksheet first; it is a relational risk that continues what began in the session.

Functional analysis keeps the intensity grounded. The therapist asks what a behavior does in context: does it protect the client from shame, invite care, avoid rejection, test whether the other person will stay, or keep anger out of awareness. The same behavior may be CRB1 in one moment and CRB2 in another, depending on function. Silence can be avoidance, but it can also be a brave pause before saying something real.

Because the therapist's response is part of the intervention, FAP demands unusual discipline. Warmth is not enough, and clever interpretation is not enough. The therapist must notice impact: did the client become more present, more direct, more emotionally alive, more able to ask, refuse or repair. If not, the therapist changes course and names that process openly.

FAP also differs from ordinary supportive therapy in its commitment to natural reinforcement. Praise is less important than genuine contact. A client who risks saying "I am angry with you" may need the therapist to stay, listen and respond honestly, not merely say "good job." This is why supervision is central: the method uses the therapist as a real person while keeping the client's learning at the center.

Therapist stance
The therapeutic relationship is the main instrument of change.

Functional Analytic Psychotherapy is a contextual behavioral approach that uses the live therapeutic relationship as the place where the client's interpersonal patterns appear and can change. The therapist notices clinically relevant behavior in session, evokes new behavior and naturally reinforces improvement.

Keep attention on live process. The clinical event is not only what the client reports but what happens between client and therapist as the report is made. In this part of the session, the therapist keeps one question in view: what is the smallest observable change that would make the client safer, freer or more stable this week?

Ask for a concrete recent episode rather than a general summary. Map the sequence, name the maintaining conditions and choose one next action. The action should be small enough to happen, but specific enough to review.

"Let us stay with one real moment and make the pattern visible."

If the client becomes ashamed, overwhelmed or defensive, slow down. The goal is collaboration and learning, not pressure. Return to the shared formulation and check whether the next step still fits the client's actual conditions.

Evoking contact

Keep attention on live process. The clinical event is not only what the client reports but what happens between client and therapist as the report is made. In this part of the session, the therapist keeps one question in view: what is the smallest observable change that would make the client safer, freer or more stable this week?

Ask for a concrete recent episode rather than a general summary. Map the sequence, name the maintaining conditions and choose one next action. The action should be small enough to happen, but specific enough to review.

"Let us stay with one real moment and make the pattern visible."

If the client becomes ashamed, overwhelmed or defensive, slow down. The goal is collaboration and learning, not pressure. Return to the shared formulation and check whether the next step still fits the client's actual conditions.

Work here and now

Keep attention on live process. The clinical event is not only what the client reports but what happens between client and therapist as the report is made. In this part of the session, the therapist keeps one question in view: what is the smallest observable change that would make the client safer, freer or more stable this week?

Ask for a concrete recent episode rather than a general summary. Map the sequence, name the maintaining conditions and choose one next action. The action should be small enough to happen, but specific enough to review.

"Let us stay with one real moment and make the pattern visible."

If the client becomes ashamed, overwhelmed or defensive, slow down. The goal is collaboration and learning, not pressure. Return to the shared formulation and check whether the next step still fits the client's actual conditions.

Generalization and transfer

Keep attention on live process. The clinical event is not only what the client reports but what happens between client and therapist as the report is made. In this part of the session, the therapist keeps one question in view: what is the smallest observable change that would make the client safer, freer or more stable this week?

Ask for a concrete recent episode rather than a general summary. Map the sequence, name the maintaining conditions and choose one next action. The action should be small enough to happen, but specific enough to review.

"Let us stay with one real moment and make the pattern visible."

If the client becomes ashamed, overwhelmed or defensive, slow down. The goal is collaboration and learning, not pressure. Return to the shared formulation and check whether the next step still fits the client's actual conditions.

Closing the session

Keep attention on live process. The clinical event is not only what the client reports but what happens between client and therapist as the report is made. In this part of the session, the therapist keeps one question in view: what is the smallest observable change that would make the client safer, freer or more stable this week?

Ask for a concrete recent episode rather than a general summary. Map the sequence, name the maintaining conditions and choose one next action. The action should be small enough to happen, but specific enough to review.

"Let us stay with one real moment and make the pattern visible."

If the client becomes ashamed, overwhelmed or defensive, slow down. The goal is collaboration and learning, not pressure. Return to the shared formulation and check whether the next step still fits the client's actual conditions.

Supervision and therapist self-monitoring

Keep attention on live process. The clinical event is not only what the client reports but what happens between client and therapist as the report is made. In this part of the session, the therapist keeps one question in view: what is the smallest observable change that would make the client safer, freer or more stable this week?

Ask for a concrete recent episode rather than a general summary. Map the sequence, name the maintaining conditions and choose one next action. The action should be small enough to happen, but specific enough to review.

"Let us stay with one real moment and make the pattern visible."

If the client becomes ashamed, overwhelmed or defensive, slow down. The goal is collaboration and learning, not pressure. Return to the shared formulation and check whether the next step still fits the client's actual conditions.

CRB1 IdentificationCRB1 Identification

A FAP intervention: CRB1 Identification for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991

CRB2 RecognitionCRB2 Recognition

A FAP intervention: CRB2 Recognition for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991; Tsai et al. 2012

In-Session Functional AnalysisIn-Session Functional Analysis

A FAP intervention: In-Session Functional Analysis for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991; Callaghan, 2006

Functional Idiographic Assessment TemplateFunctional Idiographic Assessment Template

A FAP intervention: Functional Idiographic Assessment Template for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Callaghan, 2006; Kanter et al. 2009

Structured Evocative ActivitiesStructured Evocative Activities

A FAP intervention: Structured Evocative Activities for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Nelson et al. 2016; PMC5167533

Therapist Self-Disclosure as EvocationTherapist Self-Disclosure as Evocation

A FAP intervention: Therapist Self-Disclosure as Evocation for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Tsai et al. 2012

Natural ReinforcementNatural Reinforcement

A FAP intervention: Natural Reinforcement for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991; Kanter et al. 2009

CRB1 Blocking / ExtinctionCRB1 Blocking / Extinction

A FAP intervention: CRB1 Blocking / Extinction for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991; Kanter et al. 2009

Differential Reinforcement / ShapingDifferential Reinforcement / Shaping

A FAP intervention: Differential Reinforcement / Shaping for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991; PMC3363406

Therapeutic LoveTherapeutic Love

A FAP intervention: Therapeutic Love for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Tsai et al. 2012; Tsai et al. 2017

Therapist Self-MonitoringTherapist Self-Monitoring

A FAP intervention: Therapist Self-Monitoring for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991; Tsai et al. 2012

MetacommunicationMetacommunication

A FAP intervention: Metacommunication for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Tsai et al. 2012; Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991

Functional Behavioral InterpretationFunctional Behavioral Interpretation

A FAP intervention: Functional Behavioral Interpretation for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991; PMC3363406

Shaping CRB3Shaping CRB3

A FAP intervention: Shaping CRB3 for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Busch et al. 2012; PMC3363406; Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991

Generalization / Transfer of LearningGeneralization / Transfer of Learning

A FAP intervention: Generalization / Transfer of Learning for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991; Tsai et al. 2012

Out-of-Session Behavioral HomeworkOut-of-Session Behavioral Homework

A FAP intervention: Out-of-Session Behavioral Homework for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Tsai et al. 2012; Kanter et al. 2009

ACL Model (Awareness — Courage — Love)ACL Model (Awareness — Courage — Love)

A FAP intervention: ACL Model (Awareness — Courage — Love) for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Tsai et al. 2017

FAP Goodbye Ritual / Meaningful TerminationFAP Goodbye Ritual / Meaningful Termination

A FAP intervention: FAP Goodbye Ritual / Meaningful Termination for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Tsai et al. 2016; PubMed 27869469

Therapeutic ConfrontationTherapeutic Confrontation

A FAP intervention: Therapeutic Confrontation for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991; Tsai et al. 2012

Relationship Context BuildingRelationship Context Building

A FAP intervention: Relationship Context Building for noticing clinically relevant behavior in the live therapeutic relationship and shaping more open, flexible and effective interpersonal behavior.

  • Hold the client's outside-life pattern in mind while attending to the present interaction.
  • Notice the in-session behavior and ask what function it serves right now.
  • Respond genuinely and with care, without turning the moment into a lecture.
  • Reinforce any small CRB2 shift immediately and specifically.
  • Link the in-session shift to one relationship outside therapy.

When to use:

  • When an interpersonal pattern appears in the room.
  • When the client understands the issue intellectually but repeats it relationally.
  • When the therapeutic relationship can safely become the change context.

Key phrases:

What is happening between us right now?

Follow-up questions:

I want to respond to what just happened, because it seems important.
If you can do this here, where else might it matter?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use authenticity to meet the therapist's own needs.
  • ⚠️ Do not confront without enough safety and warmth.
  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the form of behavior with its interpersonal function.

Kohlenberg & Tsai, 1991

ALLIANCE

FOCUS

INTERVENTIONS

PRESENCE

CLOSING

📋 Structured diary
Behavior Diary

FAP focuses on behavior in relationships, right here and now.

By noticing your behavior and feedback, you change patterns.

Write down the situation → behavior → feedback → alternative.

Materials are informational and educational and summarize publicly available scientific sources. They are not medical or psychological advice, are not intended for self-diagnosis or self-treatment, and do not replace consultation with a qualified professional.