A relational map connecting current relationships, transference, and past attachment figures so the central conflict can be seen across arenas.
Step-by-step guide
- Start with a current relationship episode
- Observe the same pattern in transference
- Link it to past attachment figures
- Track the triangle of conflict in each arena
- Help the client feel the difference between past and present
When to use
- When a repeated relational pattern is visible
- When transference is active
- When the client has enough alliance to explore the therapist relationship
Key phrases
This appears with them, with me, and with earlier figures.
Follow-up questions
What do you feel toward me as I ask this?
Who does this remind you of?
Alternative phrasings
The same conflict is showing up in three places.
Let us move from current life to here, then to where it began.
Warnings
- ⚠️ Do not interpret transference prematurely
- ⚠️ Do not jump to childhood before current/transference work
- ⚠️ Maintain alliance while linking arenas
Source: Malan, D. Davanloo, H
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