The basic conceptual map of REBT: A (activating event), B (beliefs), C (emotional and behavioral consequences). The key idea: it is not event A that causes suffering C, but the belief B about that event. The model expands to ABCDE: D — disputing, E — a new rational belief.
Step-by-step guide
- Identify the client's target problem (a concrete episode, not a blurry complaint)
- Establish C — the emotional / behavioral reaction (name it precisely: not "bad", but "shame", "anxiety", "fury")
- Establish A — which event / situation preceded C (concretely: what exactly happened or could have happened)
- Teach the client the distinction: "A causes C" is a myth; B is what creates C
- Identify B — what beliefs / interpretations the client has about A
- Check the link: "If you had a different belief about this event, would you feel the same?"
- Record the structure in writing (an ABC worksheet)
When to use
- At the start of therapy, for psychoeducation and orienting the client in the model
- In the analysis of any concrete distress episode
- When the client is convinced that "circumstances make them suffer" (external locus of control)
Key phrases
Tell me about a concrete situation in which you felt this. What exactly happened?
How did you feel at that moment — name the emotion precisely?
What did you think about this situation — what does it say about you, about others, about the world?
Follow-up questions
Imagine another person in the same situation who did not get upset. What did they think differently?
If event A stayed the same, but your belief B changed — would C change?
So — it is not the boss who upset you — it is your interpretation of what that means that upset you?
Alternative phrasings
Let us slow down and separate the three letters: first the event, then the belief, then the feeling.
Two people in the same A can have two very different Cs — that alone is the proof that B matters.
Write an ABC column for a single episode from this week — a concrete one, not a general story.
Warnings
- ⚠️ The client confuses A and C — describes a belief as a "fact". A clear separation is needed
- ⚠️ A focus on changing A ("how do I change the situation") rather than B draws away from REBT work
- ⚠️ Do not move to D until A, B, C are established concretely and accurately
- ⚠️ Distinguish the primary and the secondary problem (the client may first be anxious about their anxiety)
Source: Ellis, A. (1962). Reason and Emotion in Psychotherapy; Ellis & Ellis (2019)
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