A Kids' Skills intervention: Converting the Problem into a Skill. It turns a child's difficulty into a learnable skill and uses naming, supporters, practice and celebration to build motivation.
Step-by-step guide
- Translate the issue into the skill addressed by converting the problem into a skill.
- Let the child participate in naming or choosing the skill.
- Ask who can support practice in a concrete, encouraging way.
- Plan a small visible practice step.
- Notice attempts, progress and success without shaming setbacks.
When to use
- When a child needs a hopeful skill-based frame.
- When parents or teachers can support practice.
- When the problem can be translated into observable learning.
Key phrases
What skill would help this problem become smaller?
Follow-up questions
What did you notice in the moment?
What would be the smallest useful next step?
Alternative phrasings
We can use Converting the Problem into a Skill here without rushing the process.
Let us keep this concrete enough to review next time.
Warnings
- ⚠️ Do not impose adult wording if the child has not owned the skill.
- ⚠️ Do not praise only perfect success.
- ⚠️ Do not use playful language in a way that patronizes an older child.
Source: Furman (2004, 2016); solution-focused child work
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