A specific technique for moving the narration of the past into the present tense. The client says not "I was scared" but "I am scared". Not "my mother said" but "my mother is saying". This simple grammatical shift moves a dissociated, defended account into living experience. The past tense distances, the present tense brings close — and often calls up the emotion at once.
Step-by-step guide
- The client tells the story in the past tense: "I was scared, my father was shouting"
- The therapist interrupts: "Speak in the present tense. Right now."
- The client speaks again: "I am scared. My father is shouting. I am little."
- The experience becomes more emotional
- Work continues from this place of experience
When to use
- Intellectualization: the client analyzes instead of feeling
- A dissociated, distanced account of the past
- The client says "once upon a time" instead of "now" about a live theme
- Quick activation of experience at the start of work with a theme
Key phrases
Speak in the present tense. "I am scared, I am little, my father is shouting". Right now.
Follow-up questions
What happens as you say it differently?
You are staying in the story — and now this is happening. Speak as if it were here.
Warnings
- ⚠️ It can be too fast for an unstable client
- ⚠️ Do not impose if the client is more comfortable with distance for now
Source: Perls, 1969; Latner, 1992
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