A summary is an extended reflection that gathers several key elements from the conversation. It does three things: it confirms careful listening; it helps the client hear their own words gathered together; it structures the conversation. Types of summary: linking, transitional, collecting — the last is used before planning to gather all the change talk.
Step-by-step guide
- Announce the summary: "Let me gather what you have told me…"
- List the client's key thoughts, especially change talk and values
- If the situation is double-sided — reflect both sides of the ambivalence
- In a collecting summary, finish on change talk, not on sustain talk
- Finish with a question: "Have I missed anything?" or "How does that sound?"
When to use
- At a transition between themes
- At the end of a session — a transitional summary
- Before moving to planning — a collecting summary
- When the conversation "scatters" and the threads need to be gathered
- After a long monologue from the client
Key phrases
Let me gather what you have told me today. You said that your health matters to you, that you want to see the children grow… Have I missed anything?
Follow-up questions
How does that sound — accurately?
Alternative phrasings
Let me try to gather the main thing from our conversation.
Warnings
- ⚠️ Do not add your own interpretations to a summary — only the client's words
- ⚠️ Mind the order: finish on change talk, not sustain talk
- ⚠️ Do not turn the summary into a therapist's monologue
Source: Miller & Rollnick, 2013
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