Van Deurzen's basic toolkit: the therapist deliberately "brackets" their own assumptions, theories, and interpretations in order to meet the client's reality directly. The aim is to describe, not to explain: client and therapist together inquire into the experience without pinning cause-and-effect labels on it. Equalization assumes equal attention to everything heard; horizontalization places each element on the "horizon" of meaning without an imposed hierarchy. The method is not a technique for one session, but a constant discipline of the therapist's presence.
Step-by-step guide
- Epoché (bracketing) — notice and set aside your own preconceptions, diagnostic categories, and theoretical expectations
- Description — invite the client to describe the experience as precisely as possible, without explanations and cause-and-effect interpretations: "describe, do not explain"
- Equalization — give equal attention to everything in the field: do not single one thing out as important and another as insignificant
- Horizontalization — place what is heard on the "horizon" of context, without imposing a hierarchy of meanings
- Verification — give the client back their own words: "You are saying that." — check whether the meaning has been understood correctly
When to use
- At the start of work with a new client — to establish the phenomenological stance
- At any turning point when the therapist notices that they are starting to interpret rather than hear
- When working with a culturally or existentially unfamiliar world of the client
- When the client speaks of an event the therapist already "knows how to explain"
- When strong assumptions or diagnostic impulses arise in the therapist
Key phrases
Tell me what it looks like from your side — not why this is happening, but how exactly it is experienced by you.
Follow-up questions
What exactly do you notice in this situation — how does it look from inside?
I want to make sure I understand correctly — do you mean.?
What else is present in this experience that we have not yet named?
Alternative phrasings
Let us try to describe this without explaining. Just — what is happening, what is there.
Warnings
- ⚠️ The phenomenological stance is a constant discipline, not a one-off move: a therapist who "switches it off" mid-session unnoticed begins to project
- ⚠️ The method does not mean passivity — the therapist actively inquires together with the client, asking clarifying questions
- ⚠️ Do not confuse with absence of structure: epoché requires high awareness, not just silent listening
Source: van Deurzen E. 2002, 2012; van Deurzen & Arnold-Baker, 2022
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