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Selective Attention and Neglect

Selective Attention and Neglect
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A focus-maintaining technique: attend to material linked to the central conflict and gently neglect material that pulls therapy away from it.

Step-by-step guide

  1. Identify material relevant to the focus
  2. Respond more fully to focus-linked material
  3. Briefly acknowledge unrelated material
  4. Return to the central conflict
  5. Explain the rationale if needed

When to use

  • When sessions become scattered
  • When the client brings many topics
  • When time-limited work requires focus

Key phrases

This matters, and I want to connect it to our focus.

Follow-up questions

How does this relate to the pattern we are working on?
What part of this belongs to the central conflict?

Alternative phrasings

Let us not lose the thread.
I am going to bring us back to the focus.

Warnings

  • ⚠️ Do not ignore risk or urgent material
  • ⚠️ Do not make the client feel dismissed
  • ⚠️ Use warmth when redirecting

Source: Malan, D. brief psychodynamic focus technique

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