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Triangle of Conflict

Triangle of Conflict
💡 Clarification 🧠 Cognition

Malan's map of internal conflict: wish or feeling activates anxiety, anxiety activates defense, and defense blocks the feeling while maintaining symptoms.

Step-by-step guide

  1. Identify the wish or feeling
  2. Track the anxiety signal
  3. Name the defense
  4. Show the sequence to the client
  5. Return to the feeling at a tolerable pace

When to use

  • When symptoms are linked to avoided affect
  • When the client moves into defense
  • When the therapist needs a simple dynamic formulation

Key phrases

Here we can see the conflict: feeling, anxiety, and defense.

Follow-up questions

What feeling is being avoided?
What defense comes in when anxiety rises?

Alternative phrasings

Let us locate the symptom on the triangle.
This defense protects you from a feeling, but it also keeps the conflict alive.

Warnings

  • ⚠️ Do not turn the triangle into a lecture
  • ⚠️ Do not confront defenses without alliance
  • ⚠️ Do not ignore anxiety tolerance

Source: Malan, D. (1979)

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Materials are informational and educational and summarize publicly available scientific sources. They are not medical or psychological advice, are not intended for self-diagnosis or self-treatment, and do not replace consultation with a qualified professional.