Balancing supportive interventions that stabilize the client with expressive interventions that bring conflict, defense, and transference into awareness.
Step-by-step guide
- Assess affect tolerance and alliance
- Use support when the client is overwhelmed
- Use expressive work when the client can reflect
- Adjust moment by moment
- Explain the balance when useful
When to use
- Throughout STPP
- With fluctuating anxiety or shame
- When the therapist risks being either too soft or too confrontational
Key phrases
I want to support you and also help us look at the pattern directly.
Follow-up questions
Do we need to slow down or go closer?
What helps you stay with this without becoming flooded?
Alternative phrasings
Support and challenge belong together.
We can be gentle and precise at the same time.
Warnings
- ⚠️ Too much support can avoid conflict
- ⚠️ Too much expressiveness can rupture alliance
- ⚠️ Reassess balance frequently
Source: Luborsky, L. Supportive-Expressive Therapy
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