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The Bruges Model

Bruges
«The map is not the territory. The therapist's task is to offer the most useful map.»
Definition

The Bruges Model is an integrative meta-model of psychotherapy that combines SFBT, cognitive, and systemic approaches on the basis of common-factors theory. The central idea: the type of therapeutic relationship determines the choice of intervention, not the diagnosis or the therapist's preferences.

Founder(s) and history

Luc Isebaert (1946–2019) — a Belgian psychiatrist, the creator of the model. He started in the 1980s with an alcoholism treatment program at Saint John Hospital (Bruges). In parallel with the development of SFBT in Milwaukee — "midnight conversations" with de Shazer at conferences.

In 1982 Isebaert, together with Mireille Le Fevere de Ten Hove (a child psychiatrist), founded the in Bruges — named after Alfred Korzybski, author of the concept "the map is not the territory".

The model is formalized in the book Solution-Focused Cognitive and Systemic Therapy: The Bruges Model (2016).

In 2019 Isebaert presented an extension — the Monadic Bruges Model, including work with the body. Two days before his death he gave colleagues a lecture on the figures of Dionysus.

The continues the work. New directions: Solution Focused Safetywork, work with gambling and internet addiction.

Louis Cauffman (the Belgian tradition) in 2023 created SoFAP — a protocol of applied SF psychology based on Design Science Research, developing the ideas of Bruges for coaching and organizations.

Key concepts

Four types of therapeutic relationship

TypeDescriptionIntervention
InvoluntaryDoes not want to be in therapyTrust, compliments, "what is going well for you?"
SearchingWants change but does not know what kindThe Miracle Question, focusing
ConsultativeKnows what they want, ready to actTechniques: three questions, STOP, resourceful memory
ExpertAlready coping on their ownWitnessing: "what worked? how did you do that?"

The type of relationship is not a diagnosis of the person, but a description of the present moment. It can change in the course of one session.

The Bruges flowchart

A navigational algorithm: "Are there limitations? → Voluntary? → Ready to act? → Knows how?" — successive forks that determine the type of relationship and the choice of interventions. The flowchart exists so the therapist does not run ahead of the client.

Problems vs limitations

ProblemsLimitations
Potentially have a solutionLosses, chronic conditions, irreversible events
We work with a description of the futureWe help find zones of control inside the unchangeable

The distinction of limitations is a unique contribution of Bruges. Not all problems are solvable. Sometimes the most useful work is to help the client accept the unchangeable and find space for action inside it.

Common factors

The model draws on the research of Lambert (1992) and Miller et al. (2003):

FactorShareWhat it means
Client variables~40%The client's life outside the session: resources, environment, motivation
Therapeutic relationship~30%Alliance, empathy, the ability to listen
Hope and expectations~15%Belief in change
Techniques and models~15%Concrete interventions

That is why the model starts with the type of relationship (alliance), not with techniques.

Graduated expertness

Unlike classical SFBT (a strictly non-expert position), Bruges offers a graduated approach: from minimal intervention (involuntary) to expert witnessing (expert). This solves the "expertness dilemma" — when the non-expert position itself becomes expert.

The map is not the territory

The central metaphor, borrowed from Korzybski. The way the client (or the therapist) sees the situation is only one of the possible maps. The therapist's task is to help the client find the most useful map, not the "right" one.

Format of therapy
  • Number of sessions: flexible, determined by the relationship type and progress; usually 3–10
  • Session length: 45–60 minutes
  • Frequency: 1–3 weeks between meetings
  • Structure: determined by the flowchart — different relationship types receive different interventions

The session begins by identifying the type of relationship, then interventions follow that match this type. The type can be reviewed during the session.

Evidence base

The Bruges Model inherits the general evidence base of SFBT and adds its own data:

  • Alcoholism treatment program (Saint John Hospital, Bruges): demonstrated the effectiveness of minimal interventions in addiction — one of the first SF programs in Europe
  • Umbrella review of SFBT 2024 (25 systematic reviews): overall effect size d = 0.65
  • The Bruges Model has been applied in the clinical practice of the since 1982 with systematic outcome tracking

There are few RCTs specific to the Bruges Model (separate from SFBT). The model's main contribution is theoretical integration and clinical systematization, not its own quantitative research.

Limits
  • Complexity of the model — four relationship types + limitations + the flowchart require significant training; the model is less intuitive than classical SFBT
  • Few model-specific RCTs — the evidence base relies on the general SFBT data, not on research of the Bruges Model itself
  • Reliance on a single author — after Isebaert's death in 2019 the development of the model slowed, although the continues
  • Graduated expertness — a risk — the option of using directive techniques (at the consultative level) can lead to over-intervention by inexperienced therapists
  • Limited spread — the model is best known in Belgium and the Netherlands; in the English-speaking world it is less well represented than other SFBT schools
BeginningJoining and orienting

"The map is not the territory." The way we look at a situation is only a map. The therapist's task is to offer the client the most useful map.

— Alfred Korzybski

The Bruges Model is not a rigid protocol but a navigational frame. Identify the type of relationship with the client → choose the matching interventions.

JOINING

Establish contact, build a safe atmosphere. Free conversation.

IDENTIFY THE TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP

This is the central navigational tool of the model. Ask yourself:

1→ Does the client have limitations that cannot be changed? → Work toward acceptance 2→ Did the client come voluntarily? Is there a request? → If not: involuntary 3→ Is the client ready to act? → If not: searching 4→ Do they know how to use their resources? → If not: consultative 5→ Formulates a request, knows the resources, ready? → Expert

Four types + limitationsThe Bruges flowchart

INVOLUNTARY (UNCOMMITTED)

The client did not come of their own will — referred by the court, an employer, parents, the school.

Task: Build trust and hope.

What we do:

  • Compliments and positive reframings
  • Looking for what is already going well
  • A conversation about values and choices
  • Thickening the "preferred" stories

⚠️ Do not assign tasks. Do not give tools. First — trust.

SEARCHING

The client sees the problem but is not ready / unable to take responsibility for the changes. Wants others to change. The problems are vague.

Task: Help to focus and to find a personal entry point.

What we do:

  • Information, normalization
  • The Miracle Question / preferred future
  • Looking for exceptions linked to the client (not to others)
  • An observation task

CONSULTATIVE (CONSULTING)

The client is ready to act but does not know how. There is a clear view, belief in change, desire — but the tools are missing.

Task: Offer expertness to activate the client's resources.

This is the only level at which the therapist directly offers techniques and tools.

What we do:

  • "Three Questions for a Good Life" (changing perception filters)
  • The STOP technique (work with ineffective emotions)
  • Resourceful memory
  • Any matching techniques from other approaches

EXPERT

The client is the expert of their own life. Formulates the request, knows the resources, is ready to act.

Task: Be a witness to the changes.

What we do:

  • The client leads — the therapist facilitates
  • Therapy as a tool of self-management
  • Minimal intervention

LIMITATIONS

Unchangeable circumstances: losses, chronic conditions, irreversible events.

Task: Help with acceptance and adaptation.

Inside limitations there are often manageable elements. Help the client find zones of control.

© Luc Isebaert

ToolsKey techniques of the model

THREE QUESTIONS FOR A GOOD LIFE

Isebaert's technique for daily practice. Ask yourself every evening:

Name as many small details as possible. According to studies — 2 weeks of daily use significantly affect the rating of well-being.

STOP TECHNIQUE

1→ S — Stop 2→ T — Take a breath 3→ O — Observe (what is happening?) 4→ P — Proceed mindfully

Used at the level of consultative relationships to work with ineffective emotions.

© Luc Isebaert Solution-Focused Cognitive and Systemic Therapy: The Bruges Model

ClosingScaling and following sessions

SCALING

FOLLOWING SESSIONS

In follow-up sessions — re-evaluate the type of relationship. It can change! Involuntary → searching → consultative → expert.

✅ Do not run ahead of the client. Do not offer interventions the client is not ready for.

Four Levels of EngagementFour Levels of Engagement

Isebaert expanded de Shazer's classical three-level typology to four levels: Uncommitted, Searching, Consultative, Expert. The level determines the type of therapeutic relationship and the choice of interventions. The key principle — the therapist adapts every intervention to the current level, without forcing the transition. The level is dynamic and can change within a single session.

  • 1. Assess the current level through the nature of the request and the client's behavior at the start of the session
  • 2. At the "Uncommitted" level — look for strengths, give compliments, offer reflection on consequences
  • 3. At the "Searching" level — ask the Miracle Question, scaling, look for exceptions and pre-session changes
  • 4. At the "Consultative" level — co-formulate a working goal, look for resources
  • 5. At the "Expert" level — confirm the autonomy, plan the closing of therapy

When to use:

  • At the start of every session and when the relationship dynamics shift
  • Especially important with mandated clients and in the first session with an unclear request
  • When you sense that the client is "resisting" or not moving
  • On relapse or loss of motivation in the course of therapy
  • When the chosen interventions are not working — diagnosis through this frame

Key phrases:

You are here because you were referred. What, in your view, do those who referred you want from you? (Uncommitted)
What minimal step would let you know you are moving in the right direction? (Consultative)

Follow-up questions:

You say it is a problem. How have you been coping with it before?
What do you need from me to keep going on your own?
What would change for you if it were different?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not confuse the level of engagement with a diagnosis or with character — it is a dynamic state, not a trait
  • ⚠️ Avoid imposing a higher level — that creates resistance, not motivation
  • ⚠️ The level can change within a session — track it and adapt flexibly

Isebaert, 2016; Isebaert, 2007; Journal of Solution Focused Practices, 2022–2023

Exception-Finding, Bruges AdaptationException-Finding, Bruges Adaptation

The search for periods when problem use was absent or less pronounced, and a detailed inquiry into what the client did differently in those moments. In the Bruges adaptation, special emphasis is placed on intentional exceptions — those in which the client's role was active, not accidental. Attributing the exception to the client's actions strengthens self-efficacy and creates the basis for a plan. After a relapse — look for exceptions inside the relapse period itself.

  • 1. Ask about periods without the problem or with less of it
  • 2. Specify: when, where, with whom, what the client was doing
  • 3. Attribute the exception to the client's actions: "How did you manage that?"
  • 4. Strengthen: "What does this say about you?"
  • 5. Translate into a plan: "What of this can you use now?"

When to use:

  • In every session, especially with the request "nothing is working"
  • After a relapse — look for exceptions inside the relapse period
  • When the client is convinced that their problem is unchanging
  • As a transition from describing the problem to building the solution
  • To form a plan based on behavior the client has already proven

Key phrases:

Were there days or periods when you did not drink, or drank less? What was different?
How did you manage to hold back then? What exactly were you doing?

Follow-up questions:

What does this say about your resources?
When was it better — even a little?
What of this could you do again?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not confuse accidental exceptions (circumstances) with intentional ones (the client's actions) — work with the intentional ones
  • ⚠️ Do not force it if the client sees no exceptions — switch to scaling or coping questions
  • ⚠️ Do not devalue small exceptions — they matter as anchor points

De Shazer & Isebaert, 2003; González Suitt et al. 2019

Scaling Questions — Motivation and ConfidenceScaling Questions — Motivation and Confidence

Two separate scales for two different parameters: motivation to change (how much I want) and confidence in success (how much I can). A gap between high motivation and low confidence points not to resistance but to a deficit of resources. Scaling visualizes progress and gives the client a language to talk about change. The question "why not lower" always helps to uncover hidden resources.

  • 1. Introduce the scale from 0 to 10 (0 = no motivation/confidence, 10 = the maximum)
  • 2. Ask the current position: "Where are you on this scale now?"
  • 3. Inquire why not lower: "What is already there that holds you at [X], and not at zero?"
  • 4. A small step up: "What is needed to be at [X+1]?"
  • 5. With low confidence — move on to looking for resources and past successes

When to use:

  • When assessing readiness for change at the initial stage
  • When the client doubts the possibility of change
  • At the start and end of the session to track dynamics
  • When motivation and confidence diverge — to diagnose the obstacles

Key phrases:

On a scale from 0 to 10, how much do you want to change the situation?
How confident are you that you can do this if you want to?

Follow-up questions:

What keeps you at [X], and not lower? What is already working?
What would help you move one step?
What is needed for your confidence to be a little higher?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not interpret low confidence as resistance — it is a signal of a resource deficit
  • ⚠️ Motivation and confidence are different constructs, assess them separately
  • ⚠️ Do not push for moving up the scale — accept the current position as the starting point

Isebaert, 2016; De Shazer & Isebaert, 2003; González Suitt et al. 2019

Preferred Future Question / Miracle QuestionPreferred Future Question / Miracle Question

The client is invited to describe in detail life without the problem or with the problem solved. In the Bruges adaptation the emphasis is not only on the absence of the problem but also on what will be present — new actions, relationships, meanings. The question is applied flexibly: in the form of the classical "Miracle Question" or as a "morning walk" through the preferred future. The link with exceptions strengthens the realism of the picture of the future.

  • 1. Prepare: "Let me ask you an unusual question."
  • 2. Ask the Miracle Question: "Imagine that at night a miracle happened and the problem was solved. What would be different in the morning?"
  • 3. Specify: "How will you notice it? What is the first thing that will change?"
  • 4. Inquire what of this is already happening sometimes (the link with exceptions)
  • 5. Identify a minimal sign of movement toward this future

When to use:

  • In the second half of the first session or at the start of the second
  • When the client is stuck describing the problem
  • When setting treatment goals — to specify the desired result
  • When the client's goal is formulated only as the absence of the problem

Key phrases:

Suppose that while you were asleep, a miracle happened — and your problem with alcohol was solved. What would be different tomorrow morning?
What will be the first thing to tell you that something is different?

Follow-up questions:

What will other people notice in you?
What of this is already happening sometimes — even a little?
What will you be doing differently on this day?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not apply mechanically — the question must sound natural in the context of the session
  • ⚠️ If the client cannot picture the future — that is diagnostically important (depression, hopelessness), do not force it
  • ⚠️ With uncommitted clients do not start with this question — first establish contact

De Shazer & Isebaert, 2003; Isebaert, 2016; Springer, 2024

Pre-Session Change QuestionsPre-Session Change Questions

The inquiry into changes that occurred between booking the appointment and the first meeting. Some clients notice improvements already in the waiting period — attributing these changes to the client's own actions strengthens self-efficacy. The technique sets the key tone of the first session: "Something is already happening — before we have begun". This immediately shifts the focus from the problem to resources.

  • 1. At the start of the first session ask: "What has changed since you made the appointment?"
  • 2. If there are changes — inquire in detail: "How did it happen? What did you do?"
  • 3. Link with the preferred future: "Is this similar to what you want to reach?"
  • 4. Reinforce: "How could you continue doing this?"

When to use:

  • Only in the first session — before the description of the problem begins
  • If the answer is "nothing has changed" — move on to scaling or exceptions
  • When you need to quickly create a resourceful focus from the first minutes of the meeting

Key phrases:

Many people notice that something changes already after they made the appointment. What did you notice in yourself?
What helped you do that?

Follow-up questions:

How did you manage that — what were you doing?
Is this the direction you want to move in?
How could you continue this between our meetings?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not interpret the changes for the client — let them describe what happened
  • ⚠️ If the client answers "nothing" — accept it without pressure and move on without insistence
  • ⚠️ Use only in the first session — in subsequent sessions the "What is better?" technique is used

Isebaert, 2016; González Suitt et al. 2019

Solution-Focused Relapse ConversationSolution-Focused Relapse Conversation

A key difference of the Bruges Model from traditional programs: relapse is not seen as a failure requiring prevention, but as part of the process of change carrying information. The therapist works not with prevention but with learning through the experience of relapse. The questions are aimed at understanding what was holding the person before the relapse and how to come back to what was working. Exceptions are sought inside the relapse period itself.

  • 1. Accept the fact of the relapse without judgment: "It happens. What can we learn from this?"
  • 2. Inquire what came before: "What changed? What was different when it was holding?"
  • 3. Look for exceptions inside the relapse: "Were there moments when you held — even partially?"
  • 4. Return to what was working before: "What was helping before this? How to come back to it?"
  • 5. Take a small step: "What will you do today?"

When to use:

  • On any relapse after a period of abstinence or control
  • On "slips" in other contexts — not only addiction
  • When the client comes with guilt, shame, and a sense of failure
  • To restore the therapeutic alliance after a slip

Key phrases:

Tell me what happened. It is important for me to understand.
What changed compared with the period when it was holding?

Follow-up questions:

What can you take from this experience?
Were there moments even in this period when you held?
What will you do this evening — something that helped you before?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not interpret the relapse as a "failure of therapy" or "lack of motivation"
  • ⚠️ Avoid lecturing and lists of triggers — work with the client's specific experience
  • ⚠️ Do not return to negotiating the goal at once — first restore contact and safety

Isebaert, 2016; De Shazer & Isebaert, 2003; coping.us, 2016

Working with Uncommitted ClientsWorking with Uncommitted Clients

A specific adaptation for clients referred under pressure (court, employer, family) or coming under duress. The therapist does not try to impose motivation and does not interpret the absence of a request as "resistance". Instead, the inquiry asks what significant others want and what the minimal benefit for the client themselves is from being in therapy. The aim of the first session is to build enough contact for a next meeting.

  • 1. Acknowledge the situation openly: "I understand that you are not here by your own choice"
  • 2. Inquire into the expectations of the referrer: "What should change, in the view of those who referred you?"
  • 3. Find the client's minimal own interest: "Is there something that you personally would like to change — even something quite small?"
  • 4. Give compliments for the resources shown under pressure
  • 5. Agree on a minimal step the client is comfortable with

When to use:

  • First session with referred clients (court, family, employer)
  • On "loss of motivation" during treatment — the level has dropped to Uncommitted
  • When the client openly says they do not want to be here
  • Under family pressure on the client as a condition for keeping the relationship

Key phrases:

I understand this is not your choice. What would have to happen for those who referred you to be at ease?
Is there at least one thing in your situation that you yourself would like to change?

Follow-up questions:

What will be different if you come to the next meeting?
What in what I do here might be useful for you — even a little?
How do you manage to cope with all this pressure at all?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not lecture about the harms of alcohol — that strengthens the alienation
  • ⚠️ Do not interpret silence as resistance — accept it as a way of communicating
  • ⚠️ Do not require "acknowledgment of the problem" — that is not a condition of the Bruges Model

Isebaert, 2016; Isebaert, 2007; Journal of Solution Focused Practices, 2022

Harm Reduction within Solution-Focused FrameworkHarm Reduction within Solution-Focused Framework

The Bruges Model does not require abstinence as a mandatory condition of treatment. Harm reduction is organically built into the SF approach: the client themselves chooses the goal (abstinence or controlled use), and the therapist works with the goal the client has chosen. This is a fundamental divergence from traditional programs such as the "12 Steps". The criteria of success are defined by the client, not by the program.

  • 1. Present both options without preference: "Some choose full abstinence, others — to learn to drink differently. What suits you?"
  • 2. With the choice of controlled use — specify: how much, how often, in which situations
  • 3. Define success criteria agreed with the client
  • 4. Regularly review the realism of the goal on the basis of the diary
  • 5. If needed — provide information about medical risks, non-directively

When to use:

  • When setting therapeutic goals at the start of the work
  • When the client rejects abstinence as a goal
  • When reviewing the contract — if the chosen goal turned out to be unrealistic
  • To reduce shame and increase readiness to seek help

Key phrases:

What is your goal — full abstinence or learning to manage use?
What does "controlled use" look like for you, concretely?

Follow-up questions:

What will be a sign for you that this is working?
If this goal turns out to be harder than you thought — how will we notice that?
What do you want to change in your life in connection with this?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ In severe physical dependence — inform about the medical risks of controlled use, do not replace clinical assessment with the principle of autonomy
  • ⚠️ Do not replace clinical assessment with the principle of autonomy in clear medical danger
  • ⚠️ Review the goal if the chosen variant is not working — without judgment

De Shazer & Isebaert, 2003; Isebaert, 2016; González Suitt et al. 2019; Franklin, 2021

Coping QuestionsCoping Questions

Open questions aimed at uncovering how the client is coping with a difficult situation — even when "nothing helps". Especially important for clients in crisis or in chronically hard situations where exceptions are difficult to find. Studies show that coping questions increase the number of abstinent days. Attributing endurance to the client's actions creates an anchor in the hardest moment.

  • 1. Acknowledge the difficulty of the situation: "You are coping with a very hard situation"
  • 2. Ask a coping question: "How do you manage to keep going?"
  • 3. Specify: "What exactly are you doing that helps — even a little?"
  • 4. Attribute: "This says something important about you"
  • 5. Translate into a resource for the plan

When to use:

  • When the client is in crisis or describing a hopeless situation
  • When there are "no" exceptions — as a bridge to scaling
  • With high hopelessness and depression
  • As an entry point with a heavy emotional state in the client at the start of the session

Key phrases:

This sounds very hard. How do you manage to cope with it?
What helps you keep going when everything is so difficult?

Follow-up questions:

What keeps you from giving up?
How did you get to this meeting — what brought you here today?
What of this can you already do — even if it feels you cannot?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not ask in acute suicidal risk without a prior safety assessment
  • ⚠️ Do not use as a way to avoid discussing the real difficulties — first acknowledge the pain
  • ⚠️ Do not rush — give the client time to truly think about the question

Isebaert, 2016; González Suitt et al. 2019; coping.us, 2016

Compliments and End-of-Session FeedbackCompliments and End-of-Session Feedback

A structured feedback at the end of the session: the therapist gives compliments (recognition of the client's efforts and resources) and offers a between-session task. A compliment is not praise "for correct behavior" but the recognition of what the client is already doing in line with their values. The type of task is adapted to the level of engagement: an observational task for the Uncommitted, a behavioral one for the Consultative.

  • 1. Take a "time out" before the feedback (2–3 minutes of reflection or stepping out of the room)
  • 2. Formulate the compliments: what the therapist noticed valuable in the client and their efforts
  • 3. Give a "bridge" — the link between the compliments and the task
  • 4. Offer a task matching the level of engagement: observational / reflective / behavioral
  • 5. Ask the client's reaction to the task

When to use:

  • At the end of every session — a mandatory element of the Bruges protocol
  • At the closing of the work — for summing up and forming autonomy
  • With low self-esteem of the client — compliments as the main focus

Key phrases:

Before we close, I want to say what struck me about you today.
It is important for me to note that despite everything, you.

Follow-up questions:

I want to suggest something to you before our next meeting.
How does this sound? Does this fit you?
Is there anything you would like to add to what you did today?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Compliments must be concrete and sincere, not generic ("well done")
  • ⚠️ The task must not be harder than the client is ready to do — better less and realistic
  • ⚠️ Do not assign behavioral tasks to uncommitted clients — only observational ones

Isebaert, 2016; González Suitt et al. 2019

Progress Inquiry / "What's Better?" OpeningProgress Inquiry / "What's Better?" Opening

Every following session begins with the question of what has improved since the last meeting. This sets an orientation toward change rather than toward the problem and signals to the client: change is possible and likely. If nothing has improved — that is also important information: one can move to coping questions or review the goal. The "what is better" question is the standard opening of every Bruges session from the second onward.

  • 1. Open the session: "What has gotten better since our last meeting?"
  • 2. If there are improvements — inquire in detail: "How did it happen? What did you do?"
  • 3. If nothing is better: "How do you manage to hold? What kept things from getting worse?"
  • 4. On worsening — move to the post-relapse conversation
  • 5. Use the answer as the starting point of the session

When to use:

  • The start of every session from the second onward — a mandatory protocol element
  • When assessing the dynamics of treatment
  • To maintain orientation toward the solution, not the problem

Key phrases:

What has gotten better since our last meeting?
What did you notice that has changed?

Follow-up questions:

Even a little — what is at least a little better?
How did you manage to do that?
What does this say about you?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not interpret the answer "nothing" as a failure or a reason for alarm
  • ⚠️ Do not move straight to the problem on a negative answer — first ask about coping
  • ⚠️ The question must sound sincere, not formal — otherwise the client gives a socially desirable answer

Isebaert, 2016; coping.us, 2016

Working Towards Client-Defined GoalsWorking Towards Client-Defined Goals

A principled stance of the Bruges Model: the therapist never works toward a goal the client does not share, even if that goal seems "correct" from a clinical point of view. The therapist may inform but not redefine the goal. This includes the recognition of the client's right to controlled use as a legitimate treatment goal. The goal must be formulated positively — what will be, not what will not be.

  • 1. Clarify the client's goal in their own words
  • 2. Specify: "How will you know that you have reached this?"
  • 3. Make sure the goal is formulated positively (what will be, not what will not be)
  • 4. Make sure the goal is realistic and within the client's zone of influence
  • 5. Work only with this goal, do not substitute it with the "correct" one

When to use:

  • Throughout the whole treatment — as a constant orientation
  • Especially important under pressure from third parties (family, court)
  • When you sense the client is working "for the therapist" rather than for themselves
  • When reviewing the course — make sure the new goal is still the client's

Key phrases:

What do you want from our work? Not other people — you?
How will you know that you have reached this?

Follow-up questions:

What will be different when this happens?
Is this what you want — or what others want for you?
What will be a good enough result for you?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not confuse client-centeredness with permissiveness: in medical danger — inform
  • ⚠️ Distinguish the client's own goal from the expectations of the referrer
  • ⚠️ A goal formulated as a negation ("not to drink") requires a positive reformulation

Isebaert, 2016; De Shazer & Isebaert, 2003; González Suitt et al. 2019

Therapeutic Contract NegotiationTherapeutic Contract Negotiation

Unlike directive approaches, the goal of treatment — including the choice between abstinence and controlled use — is formulated together with the client, not set by the program. The client's participation in choosing the goal increases adherence and self-efficacy. The contract is not a legal document but a living agreement, reviewed as changes happen. This is a key element distinguishing the Bruges Model from traditional programs such as the "12 Steps".

  • 1. Ask the client: "What is your goal regarding use?"
  • 2. Inquire into both options (abstinence or controlled use) without preference
  • 3. Discuss the realism of the goal in light of previous attempts
  • 4. Lock in the goal in concrete, observable terms
  • 5. Agree on intermediate review points for the contract

When to use:

  • First and second session — before the main work begins
  • On any relapse or need to review the course of treatment
  • When the client expresses ambivalence about the goal
  • Under pressure from third parties (family, court, employer)

Key phrases:

What is your goal — full abstinence or learning to drink differently?
What does "controlling the use" mean for you? What will it look like, concretely?

Follow-up questions:

If in a month you say you are moving in the right direction — what will have changed?
How will you know that you have reached your goal?
When we meet again, by what signs will we know that we are moving where we need to?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not impose abstinence as the only correct goal even with medical indications — inform, but not directively
  • ⚠️ With medical contraindications to use, provide information while keeping the right of choice with the client
  • ⚠️ Review the contract when new data appear — it is living, not final

De Shazer & Isebaert, 2003; Isebaert, 2016; González Suitt et al. 2019

Self-Monitoring DiarySelf-Monitoring Diary

The client keeps a use diary between sessions, recording not only the facts of use but also the context — the situation, emotions, preceding thoughts, as well as the days without use or with less use. In the Bruges Model the diary is oriented toward discovering exceptions and patterns of success, not only toward monitoring the problem. It is a tool of inquiry, not of control.

  • 1. Introduce the diary as a tool of inquiry, not of control: "We want to study together what is happening"
  • 2. Define what exactly to record: amount, situation, mood, exceptions
  • 3. In the next session start with the diary: "What did you notice?"
  • 4. Highlight patterns of success and patterns of risk
  • 5. Use the diary data to refine the goal and the plan

When to use:

  • With clients at the "Consultative" and "Expert" levels — do not assign to the uncommitted
  • When you need to understand the patterns triggering use
  • To track progress between sessions
  • On the move from setting the goals to realizing them

Key phrases:

I would be interested if you noted things down — not for control, but so we can together see when it gets better.
What did you notice as you looked at the records? When was it easier?

Follow-up questions:

On which days did you manage — how did you do that?
What did the situations have in common when it was harder?
What does the diary say about the patterns of your life?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Position it as inquiry, not as a task or reporting
  • ⚠️ If the diary is not kept — do not criticize, inquire what got in the way (informative in itself)
  • ⚠️ Do not turn it into a tool of shame and self-punishment

De Shazer & Isebaert, 2003; Isebaert, 2016; NOVA, 2016

Social Network ActivationSocial Network Activation

In the Bruges Model significant others (partner, family, friends) are seen as part of the system of changes, not only as those affected or as a source of pressure. The therapist may work with close ones either separately or together with the client. The key question: who in the surroundings will support the change and how to activate them as a resource. This is the systemic component of the Bruges Model.

  • 1. Build a map of the social environment: "Who among the close ones knows about your situation?"
  • 2. Identify potential allies: "Who of them would support you in change?"
  • 3. Discuss how and what to talk about with the close ones
  • 4. If possible — invite significant others to a joint session
  • 5. Inquire what significant others will notice when the changes happen

When to use:

  • From the second session onward, where there are significant relationships
  • On a relapse — activation of supporting resources is mandatory
  • When isolation is a sustaining factor of the addiction
  • Under high family tension around the use problem

Key phrases:

Who in your life will notice that something has changed?
Who among the close ones could help — and how?

Follow-up questions:

What would your partner want to see different?
If your partner were here, what would he/she say?
How could you ask for support from someone you trust?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not turn significant others into supervisors or observers
  • ⚠️ Remember that the expectations of the close ones may conflict with the client's goals
  • ⚠️ Work with the client's stance, do not switch sides to the close ones

Isebaert, 2016; De Shazer & Isebaert, 2003; González Suitt et al. 2019

Relationship Questions / Perspective-Taking QuestionsRelationship Questions / Perspective-Taking Questions

The therapist invites the client to look at the situation through the eyes of a significant other — partner, child, friend. This strengthens motivation when the client sees themselves from the outside, and helps to specify the preferred future through observable changes in relationships. Relationship questions are a systemic component of the Bruges Model, borrowed from systemic psychotherapy.

  • 1. Choose a significant other together with the client
  • 2. Ask the question from their perspective: "If your wife were here, what would she say about you?"
  • 3. Inquire what the significant other will notice on a change
  • 4. Use the answer to specify the goal
  • 5. If needed — bring in the "real voice" of the significant other (invite them to a session)

When to use:

  • When the goal is unclear or abstract — to specify it through relationships
  • Under high family tension around the problem
  • To strengthen motivation through the perspective of close ones
  • When the client loses the meaning of the changes — to recall the impact on important people

Key phrases:

What will your partner notice when something changes?
If your children could speak here — what is important to them?

Follow-up questions:

What would your closest friend say if they saw you in a year?
What, do you think, would your partner most want to see different?
What should happen for this person to see the difference?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not use as pressure ("for the sake of the family") — the client's stance comes first
  • ⚠️ Do not substitute the client's own motivation with the expectations of others
  • ⚠️ With high guilt — use carefully, so as not to amplify self-blame

Isebaert, 2016; the systemic component of the Bruges Model

Common Factors AssessmentCommon Factors Assessment

A unique meta-frame of the Bruges Model: the therapist regularly assesses three blocks of factors that determine effectiveness. Client factors (resources, motivation, history of changes) — 40% of the contribution. Relationship factors (alliance, acceptance, empathy) — 30%. Hope and expectation factors — 15%. Specific techniques — only 15%. This orients the therapist: if the work is not moving, it is most likely the alliance that is broken, not the "wrong" technique that has been chosen.

  • 1. Assess client resources at the start of the work: "What in this person works for change?"
  • 2. Monitor the quality of the alliance: regularly ask for feedback on the course of the session
  • 3. Work with hope: "How much do you believe that change is possible?"
  • 4. Match techniques to the client, not the other way round
  • 5. On stalling — check which of the three blocks is broken: resources, alliance, or hope

When to use:

  • As a meta-perspective on the whole therapeutic work — a constant background
  • At moments when therapy is not moving — diagnosis through this frame
  • When you sense the techniques are not working
  • In supervision or self-supervision to understand the dynamics of the case

Key phrases:

How does our work feel? What is useful, what is not?
How much do you believe that change is possible?

Follow-up questions:

What in you helps you move forward?
Is there something in how we work that you would like to change?
What in today's meeting was most useful?

Warnings:

  • ⚠️ Do not fetishize technique — if the alliance is broken, no technique will help
  • ⚠️ Restore the alliance before continuing the work with the content
  • ⚠️ Assess regularly, not only in crisis — alliance problems often go unnoticed gradually

Isebaert, 2016; Wampold & Lambert (common factors research)

ALLIANCE

FOCUS

INTERVENTIONS

PRESENCE

CLOSING

🔧 Adapted diary
This approach does not define a standardized client diary. We prepared an adapted version based on its key concepts. If you have suggestions, write to us.
Practice Diary

The Bruges Model integrates body, mind, and relationships.

By noticing all three aspects, you see the whole picture.

Record the situation → body → thoughts → relationships → takeaway.

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Materials are informational and educational and summarize publicly available scientific sources. They are not medical or psychological advice, are not intended for self-diagnosis or self-treatment, and do not replace consultation with a qualified professional.